Being with a Black Woman
Equally an address to black males as well as non-black males…..
Stereotypes are like endless sand on a beach (especially when you look at them in the dating realm). Very many people fall into being prey to false advertising and other impeccable lies that often end up bruising and hurting them when it comes to finding a mate. So are you ready to date, or have dated, or have been dating, black women? I just made that whole sentence seem like you need a marathon training in order to go ahead with it! I just wanted to point to the truth that: your thinking process should evolve to halt the processing of myths and misconceptions on the black ladies. Black women appear to be just like any other- except dipped in caramel or dark chocolate. Yes, the many shades make them beautiful and you’d be surprised if you approach like a king you will get a beautiful black queen.
What the Fuss is……….
When you are indulging and chomping on all the myths about being with black women, you are missing opportunities. The false theories, and views, cloud your thoughts and eventually lead you to grouping these ladies in one-type of way. The reality is that black women happen to just be women not some weird species! So an open-mind is very invited since you will meet with many personalities and heritages. When you are open to meeting a lover, a friend or a life-mate, you should not be walking in with pre-judgements. Pre-judgements prevent you from knowing each woman for who she really is. You should get to know her for her feelings, her past, her future and her dreams; you should not be knowing her in terms of the stereotypes that you think define her.
Popular Misconceptions
Misconceptions about dating black women are rampant and many of them are hurtful in their purpose. When you go around believing everything , you can miss that chance to meet a great black woman. So here are some things that you’ve probably heard about black women.
1. Black women have too much attitude!
I don’t know did you step on her big toe and she yelled & slapped you so now she has attitude? Take a few leaps back and you will come face to face to the realization that there are women of all colors that have enormous attitudes. Really, it’s not a black woman curse. Plus, not all of us black women have attitudes. So what often leads to this assumption?
The numero uno thing that often becomes the kryptonite of black women is their strength and independence. It all branches from culture and it should not be looked at as a bad thing. When women of other races react the same way they are excused “she was defending herself” but no way, not a black lady. Anyways, it is not to say that by being strong on your values = attitude! Independent types intimidate men. It is a problem that can be address in a double way: women please make sure you make a man feel needed and men please make sure you are not looking for a doormat! So to make a long story short, independent & strong black women need men who are just as stronger and independent.
2. Black women have way too many kids and a lot of drama with their baby daddy!
This one has to be set straight: Hollywood propaganda utilizes the few numbers of such cases and applies it to our black female population! It is not completely true. Movies and sitcoms eat it up since it makes for great entertainment. Get a mouthy, edgy, character called Laquisha whose got 5 baby daddies and you’ve got pure diluted entertainment. Come on now, get acquainted with a real black woman and you will see that such creations really fall flat on their faces.
Why don't we see even at least one portrayal like this!
Black women are gorgeous (well like any other race these are the ones that conduct themselves with respect and class). They embrace their loving and caring side by raising families and caring for others apart from themselves. So? We are all unique. We come in different hues and personalities. Stop stacking us like cattle into one pen. We are not perfect but yet we don’t appreciate when you make it easy to glue women of a particular race or culture and say that they behave in a diagnosed uniform way. When you choose to use the mythical glue of lies on a black woman all you are doing is limiting your life experiences with diversity.
If you are interested in pursuing black women, then you have to leave any pre-conceived notions that you may have seen, or heard, and walk into it with a renewed vision. See her as an individual who is not tainted by mistakes that some people of her race may have made (or are making). Let her color of skin be something radiant that you are proud to be holding and touching.
You can have any woman you want if you choose to be an Alpha male that rejects people’s limiting beliefs and pursues your own enriching ones. Nothing is as sexy as a man who pursues what he wants as opposed to what people say he should have.
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