7 Things that Repulse Men

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There are many things that repulse men but we are going to focus on the ones that raise alarms when it comes to women.  Also keep in mind that just putting forth an effort to have a healthy self-image is first before you try to please ANY man.  Now, I never dressed (or groomed) primarily for the approval of a man and I will be damned if I ever dress for that main purpose! I just like to feel great in my own skin. Anyways….


It’s almost scientific that men are quite visual so when it comes to the ladies who are looking a hot mess….that’s a problem.  Let’s just say that if you are waiting for him to see past your ”hot mess” into your soul, you will be waiting a long long time or, you will meet another “hot mess”.

1. Walking around with ugly nails:

I am not expecting you to hit the nail salon drop $40/month especially if you are on a budget! You really can make it all at home (even if you are lazy or broke!).  Fake nails are not my #1 option so my nails are always clean and shaped plus, I do like to regularly polish….I’m just throwing that our there!  Heck I’ve even worn Kiss Broadway Natural Deceptions and a lady asked me which salon I had just done my nails at!

2. Get the funky odour away from your hair

You may not smell it but men detect funk like it’s bug spray.  Bacteria, that is to blame for the odour, loves to live in dark, warm, moist places.  So your hair becomes a motel bed for the bacteria to chill out there and grow.  Longer stay= more funk!   So if you are wearing weaves, wigs and hair products, learn to wash your hair. Use dry shampoo if you have to!

3. You better shape up if you want a man If you want a man who takes care of himself too! And Health-wise…

Women, and men, who take care of themselves physically also reveal subtly that they take care of other  business in their lives.  You know it and here’s the good news: you don’t have to drop $50 on a monthly gym membership. Go outside for long walks and come home and do sit-ups. Or you can start working out at home if it’s winter time.  I particularly enjoy working out to Jillian Michaels: Banish Fat, Boost Metabolism cardio tapes.

4. Wear clothes that compliment your body shape

No one said you have to run out to an expensive retail store to get into some brand names. You can look cute for your shape by taking proper measurements and tailoring the ones that don’t quite fit.

5. Remove thy mask

Men are likely to approach a woman who looks real and easy to strike a conversation with. So? So if you are wearing clown-like makeup, you look like a Photoshoped clown who just missed the circus.  What is so repulsive to men when it comes to too much makeup? What will they really be getting after all that fake stuff comes off! So learn to play up your best features without any false-advertising (aka clown makeup!). 

6. Overall hygiene: Wash and wear clean garments!

Looking neat and clean is hand in hand. You can not look clean and then give armpit B.O when someone hugs you. Okay enough about all the funk! This is a 101 in hygiene routines. And ladies, not out to embarrass you, but special care is needed when Aunt Flo comes to visit. I remember one day standing in front of a certain girl who kept chatting with us and the special funk was all there and she seemed oblivious to it but everyone else was VERY aware! No one told her but the gentlemen I was with sure questioned it afterwards. Too bad she was not someone close that you can slap on some handcuffs and hand over to some hygiene police!

7. Show a kind heart and appreciation.

Do you swoop your man off his feet on a special day (hint example: his birthday) and  foot the dinner bill and movie to manifest how much you appreciate him and how you think he’s special to you? or do you just go out to dinner and expect him to pay that day too? Men like to be spoiled too.

Remember, you can keep yourself looking great without having to sweat buckets about your next paycheck clearing your bank.

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